“The Best Way To Help Your Family Is To Turn Your Back On Incessant Monetary Demands From Them” — Activist, Charles Ogbu
He wrote: “Most times, the best way to help your family is to turn your back on incessant monetary demands from them and focus on building yourself to the point where you are in a position to render sustainable help without crippling yourself.
The most common mistake most people make which has kept many in stagnant financial position is trying to attend to every family need even when they themselves could barely solve their own needs. That way, both the one trying to help and the family they are trying to help end up remaining in poverty.
I’m sure many of us can relate to this.
I DID NOT say you shouldn’t help your family ooo. I said, don’t try to solve every family problem when you are still struggling financially.”
